Quote Originally Posted by Dan Druff View Post
Quote Originally Posted by verminaard View Post
Wikipedia defines molestation as the forcing of undesired sexual behavior by one person upon another, or any sexual contact between an adult and minor. By this definition I am not sure an 8 year old having sex with a 13 year could be defined as molestation, unless there was force involved, which seems unlikely.
You must not remember being 8 very well.

An 8-year-old boy usually doesn't have any kind of sex drive, and even if he does, would not feel comfortable acting on it in reality, especially with someone much older.

This is very different than a teenage boy being "molested" by an adult, because most teenage boys have a legitimate sex drive and are already near adulthood. They could enjoy the experience and not be scarred by it, even if the female "molesting" him is much older.

An 8-year-old is never ready for sex, and just about all of them would feel uncomfortable and traumatized by a 13-year-old touching them sexually, regardless of the gender. I remember being 8, and there's no way I would have liked a 13-year-old girl touching me that way.

13-year-old girls are also much bigger and stronger than 8-year-old boys, and especially if they are in a position of authority, can be intimidating enough to where actual force isn't required. That's what sounds like occurred in the R.A. Dickey story.
I used to go hang out at my buddies house back when i was probably 8 or 9. He had a hot 12-13 year old babysitter. We used to play truth or dare and we would constantly dare each other to make out with the babysitter. She always played along and would often french kiss us. We thought it was the coolest thing in the history of the world. Im pretty sure I wasnt molested! Looking back on it as an adult, she must have been a lonely, unpopular social outcast to be spending her weekends making out with the young neighborhood boy, but hey she was getting paid for it!