
Originally Posted by
mulva
i think you're you're pretty much fucked. you know it but you don't want to believe it. that doesn't mean things can't change and things work out, but it's not a good sign. it all depends on what u want from her.
much like brown says, she's keeping her options open. keep your guard up so you don't get blindsided.
as for her dictating to you that she need constant attention, if not from you others....well,..that's lol. ..i would keep this bitch at arms length until you have more hand.
During the argument I did say exactly that, It seemed as though she was keeping options open.
She denied this, and said if she wanted to get back with him she could have done at any point as she was the one who ended it and he's been chasing her ever since.
Fwiw she was with him for 5 years, was married to a diff guy for 3 years before that, and has had another bf for a year and a half since the guy in question.
Admittedly I'm not as experienced in this respect, don't have any baggage whatsoever, that's why I posted here as I know most on here are olders.